Mindful De-cluttering

Practice mindful de-cluttering.
Angry de-cluttering is done without thought, when we’ve reached a point of being overwhelmed and just start pitching stuff.  Mindful de-cluttering is an orderly, systematic approach to making decisions about our belongings.  We allow ourselves the time necessary to make mindful decisions based on our current needs and lifestyle.

Storage Options

When trying to find the best storage option for items ask yourself these 3 questions.

1.  Where do I use the item?  Store it where you use it.

2.  How often do I access the item?  Store items used frequently in easily accessible containers and locations.

3.  What is the best technique for storing the item?  Consider whether the item should be stored in a container, and if the container should be open or have a lid.

Deciding What Clothing to Keep

Tip:  When packing up summer clothes, determine what is worth holding onto for next summer by answering these 3 questions:

  •     Did you wear the item.  If so, how many times?  If it’s been worn three or more times, it’s worth keeping.
  •     Does the items still fit and flatter you?  If it’s tight or unflattering let it go.
  •     Is the item worn out, torn, stained, or best kept as a rag?  We all have our favorites, but two outfits for painting, gardening and messy work is enough.

One In, One Out Rule

Practice the One In, One Out Rule, especially if you’d like to reduce the current amount you have.  For example, every time you purchase a new purse, donate, sell, or pass on an old purse.  Every time you’re given a new coffee mug, re-purpose, recycle, or pass on an old one.  Practicing this Rule will help prevent needless accumulation and stockpiling of unwanted items.

I’d recommend a modification of the Rule with items that we inadvertently bring into our space, for example,  plastic grocery store bags, food storage containers, shipping boxes, gift bags, tissue paper, swag gifts, and free samples of products we don’t use.    I’d recommend you practice the One In, Three (or more) Out Rule.

Organizing/Sharing Information

Jot down any notes, dates, ideas, or information that you want to discuss with your spouse and children in a small notebook and keep it next to the dinning room table or kitchen table.  I keep my notes next to the kitchen table on the counter.  This helps jog my memory and reminds me to address the issues before, after, or during dinner time.